By Nicole Amaturo
Good Vibes Only. We see this saying all over social media, clothing, and knick-knacks but what exactly is a vibe and why is it so important that it’s good? We all have a variety of emotions that come and go and vary upon the different experiences that come our way. We have beliefs about ourselves and certain experiences trigger certain emotions based upon those beliefs. Some emotions serve us better than others.
When we are functioning from a place of love, then we are manifesting all of our heart’s desires. If we are making decisions and reacting from a place of fear, then we are blocking all the greatness that is trying to reach us. When we believe we are blessed and feel grateful, then the emotion of gratitude will create more things in our lives to be grateful for. The same goes if we play the victim role and hold onto resentment and anger, then this will negatively serve us and bring more experiences into our lives to feel like a victim and carry anger.
Believe it or not, we create our reality day in and day out. We manifest all the things we want and don’t want starting with something as simple as a thought. Everything and anything that we desire is truly meant to be ours but we usually get in our own way. Greatness is our birthright but we often feel the control is outside of ourselves, when in actuality it’s quite the opposite. When you come from a place of fear, then you are not going after all of the things that you truly desire and are instead creating all the things that you don’t want with your thoughts.
Everything and anything that we desire is truly meant to be ours but we usually get in our own way.
Our thoughts create an emotion and that emotion will either positively or negatively serve us. As stated by Abraham Hicks in the book, Ask and It Is Given, the scale of emotions vary from positive emotions at the top to negative emotions toward the bottom. I see this as a pole with a range of emotions on it. At the top half of the pole, there are emotions such as joy, appreciation, passion, enthusiasm, optimism, and hopefulness while fear, anger, blame, guilt, resentment, jealousy and powerlessness are all on the lower end of the pole. In the middle of the pole lies emotions such as boredom, frustration, doubt, impatience, disappointment, and “overwhelment”. When we are attempting to manifest our dreams but we live on the bottom half of the pole, then we are going to have an extremely tough time creating what we want and instead we’ll create what we don’t want.
Like attracts like. We need to be a match for the things we desire to reach us. The things that we desire vibrate at a high frequency which means they’ll be a match for all the emotions that live at the top half of the pole. The goal is to live at the top half most of the time so we can create experiences that’ll bring more joy, appreciation, and enthusiasm in our lives. Life isn’t perfect and it’s natural to experience fear, doubt, and anger at times. But, living at the bottom half will only bring us more disappointing, frustrating, and overwhelming experiences because that is exactly what it will attract and be a match for. It’s truly as simple as that.
6 WAYS TO RAISE YOUR VIBE TODAY:
1. Show Gratitude
Create a Gratitude Journal and write five things you’re grateful for each night before you go to bed. When you wake up, read those 5 things back to yourself to begin your day with gratitude. What you focus on expands.
2. Practice Forgiveness
If you find yourself angry and resentful, it is only hurting you. The quickest way to happiness for yourself is to forgive and release. Marianne Williamson, teacher of A Course in Miracles, states: “Would you rather be happy or right?”
3. Shift Your Focus
If you are stressing about lack of money in your bank account, quickly turn your focus to all that you do have instead, no matter what the amount is. If you are unhappy at work, focus on the aspects about your job that you do like. Find one small positive thing to focus on each day. You’ll end up finding more to be grateful for than you realized.
4. Be Present
Go for a walk outside and spend time in nature. Listen to the birds chirp or the waves crashing against the shore. When you eat, focus on the taste, texture, sound, and smell as you are eating and appreciate each bite. Stay in the present moment and soak up all the goodness surrounding you.
5. Have Fun
Watch a funny movie, YouTube stand-up comedy video, call a friend that you can giggle with, put your favorite playlist on, sing your heart out and dance! Your spirits will immediately lift and you’ll realize you need more of this in your life each day. Spread joy.
6. Do something nice for another person
Buy someone’s coffee, compliment them, send them flowers, leave a love note, smile, or tell someone how much they’re appreciated. You’ll instantly feel awesome and the bonus is it’ll bring more joy into your life, as well.
You can begin to shift your reality today by acting from a place of love instead of fear. Taking these small action steps each day will bring you closer to manifesting all of your dreams that you deserve and desire. When you feel great and do great, greatness follows you!
About the Author
Nicole Amaturo is a Mindset Coach who helps women all over the world uncover and heal blocks inhibiting them from attracting the love they desire and deserve. Nicole holds a B.A. in Education and Psychology, as well as an M.A. in Holistic Health from Georgian Court University. Nicole is a divorced mom of three on a mission to share her lessons in self-love and worth as the founder of The Free Life with Nicole Amaturo. She is a certified Infinite Possibilities trainer by best-selling author, Mike Dooley, in his program on The Art of Living Your Dreams. Nicole is also a graduate of Gabrielle Bernstein’s Spirit Junkie Masterclass. Writing is Nicole’s second love and is an active contributor to the Worthy blog. Learn more about Nicole here.